Jealousy Questions for Men

Jealousy Questions for Men section. I ask the Jealousy based questions and you provide the answers! The answers that you provide are not for anyone else to read. (We will never share, sell, or rent individual personal information to anyone without your advance permission.) By answering these jealousy questions, you will be thinking about how you feel, as a man, about specific subjects relating to your feelings and how you normally handle specific jealousy issues in your life. Answering these questions will make you think about how well you deal with jealousy issues and also how you could better deal with those issues at that same time. Your own words WILL help you more than you can imagine! Become the man that you want to be!

You may find as you're answering the questions that you are responding to the jealousy questions in terms of how you would, ideally, like to be. Please resist that temptation and answer, instead, from a place of complete self-honesty. You may not like some of these questions, but answer them anyways. Sometimes how you see yourself is not so pretty, until you completely know yourself. Answer as truthfully as possible and try to write a detailed answer.

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How often to you battle jealousy? and Why do you think it is that often?
Does your lover actually do things that should make you jealous? If so, make a list of their behavior.
Have you ever tried to put yourself in your partners place, in search of understanding how this jealousy affects them? Please explain.
Do you feel that your partner has created this jealous emotion in you, or that it was already present inside of you before your present relationship?
What steps have you taken, in the past, to find an answer or understanding of your jealous feelings?
On a normal basis, do you feel that you need to control your partner's actions in order to avoid your jealous feelings? Please explain.
Do you confuse the feeling of envy with the feeling of jealousy?
Do you, or your partner, have past relationships that tend to make jealousy an issue in your present relationship? If so, how does it effect your relationship?
Do you have personal insecurities that tend to come out as jealousy in your relationships? If so, what are those insecurities?
Jealousy is best delt with right away, as soon as you feel it. If your partner really is doing something to cause you to feel jealous, have you discussed the issue with them? and How long do you wait to tell them?
When you feel jealousy, do you more feel the sense of insecurity and neediness, or a sense of abandonment, or the sense of being betrayed? Explain in detail.
When discussing jealousy issues with your partner, does the conversation usually turn into angry behavior, blaming, judging, getting defensive, and building up resentments?
To begin working on jealousy issues with your partner and making things better for you both, you will need to base many conversations on having a deeper, more authentic, heart-to-heart way of working with each other's vulnerabilities and insecurities. Do you think that you AND your partner are ready for that at this point? If not, why?
Safety and acceptance is the only solution to fear, insecurity and vulnerability. When discussing jealousy issues with your partner, do not let blame or judgment enter the conversation at all. This is about creating safe feelings in the relationship. Do you think that you can have a discussion of this type at this point in your relationship? If not why?
Statistically, few relationships work out long term. However, you can count on this to be true: if you do not learn how to understand and communicate with your partner about your insecurities and jealous feelings, (in a healthy, non-needy, non-judgmental, non-blaming, but effective way) then (1) you will not get what you want, and (2) you will only have to learn it later, in the next relationship where you are suffering the same feeings again. Are you ready to start dealing with those feeings?

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